No Delicious Fruit without Good Roots: Parental Care 101

July 29, 2017 Joseph Melvin 0

At least, I hope you’re having a good day.

When you’re parents, suddenly life goes on Nightmare Mode. It’s fairly easy to putting self-care on the back burner until everything with the kids get sorted out. However, what a lot of parents don’t realize is that the whole “kids” package won’t ever end.

Not even when they’re all grown up and living their own lives. A parent’s worry is a worry to be carried until they die. With that now established, any parent reading this must now recognize the importance of self-care.

What is self-care?

This refers to satisfactorily meeting your personal needs. If you’ve ever played the game The Sims, there are status bars which deteriorate over time. This is pretty much people work. We all have needs which slowly or drastically depreciate as time goes by.

It can all depend on the environmental factors you find yourself in. Stressors play a big part in how much you may need self-care. When you’re a parent, self-care is critical.

Why do parents need suitable self-care?

When you’re a parent, you’re fully responsible for a brand new life (or two). To cultivate the growth of decent human beings, a proper environment is needed. When parents are constantly under stress and remiss with their self-care, it can lead to disastrous consequences.

So what sorts of self-care should parents prioritize?

Getting suitable rest

This is one of the things that any expert will tell you. Your faculties will suffer if you do not get suitable rest. When your child’s well-being rests on you being able to care for them appropriately, suitable rest is critical.

Getting help for personal issues

If you have any longstanding personal issues like rage or depression, get help. It isn’t anything to be ashamed about. It is actually best to get help now and avoid any untoward exchanges or events involving the children.

Food For Thought:

When you’re a parent, the general aim is to raise good and healthy individuals. This cannot happen if the parent does not care for themselves appropriately. You can’t have good fruit is the tree’s roots are rotten.…